Are you a Carrot, an Egg or a Coffee Bean?

When The carrot, the egg and the Coffee bean  is boiling to the water , each of this gives different reaction.

The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting.

However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it  softened and became weak.

The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior.

But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened!

The ground coffee beans were unique, however.

After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

We can analouge the carrots , the egg and the coffee bean are as us. Then the Boiling water is as probelm.

If we meet the probelm,  What kind of us? Am I The Carrots , The Egg or the Coffee Bean?

Am I the carrot that seems strong but, with pain and probelm , do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit but, after a death, a breakup, does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

Or

am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavour. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?